Monday, December 03, 2007

Can't Help it! Girl Can't Help it!

Taken from Fergie's Clumsy, the title is so perfect to this post!

Writing post like this, I feel pretty bad to write this post. This is about females who stare at me everyday (Weekdays, thank god!) just as if I had stolen something from 'em. Can give many examples. Almost all females in my office barring those who I interact with (diplomatic). There is a female just beside my cubicle, (good that there is a divider in between), who at any point of time I get up, looks @ me (due to change in her view), literally frowns. =(. I really dont know the reason. This is just an example.

Now, I'm not regretting for this. I do not have a reason. Its their attitude. I don't mind whatever they do(In fact, I'm least bothered). Still, I tried to get a reason for that hatred shown towards me. Someone within stimulated me to find a reason behind this. What I feel would be the reason is,

1. My Appearences : I used to and continue to go to office with a thick beard. Many people build up a misconception that all bearded men are rowdies. To add onto that, I go to office with my uncut hairs which looks like a bush for many. some used to call me Sai-Baba (Puttaparthi), lookin at my hairs.

2. The way I speak to male friends( sometimes over phone with my college friends), is totally casual, adding onto my appearence, this might give them an opinion that I'm speakin somthin offensive! Hmm.

Factors like this make me a junglee type of person. I really don't know why am I bloggin this. Didn't get a betta topic. Passing my time writing this.

Comment on what you feel. I don't think you would feel anything goin thru this.

13 comments:

i 7 said...

nimm hendrunn, nagu tadiyokke aagtillaa ee post odhi!

ninna beard kathe keLi nanna engg dinagaLu nenpige bandvu. PU inda hid'Du engg 2nd yr varegu meese boLsirlillaa naanu :D aamele sisya obba heLda, meese tegyo nann magne illdidre uncle tara kanthiyaa anta. aa kshanakke enaaaytu anta gotillaaa, aa divsa ne razor @ work @ full throttle. eventually meese moha hortoytu :(

"might give them an opinion that I'm speakin somthin offensive!" - ajjinaaa baDiyaaa, avren bekaaadru ankonD saaayli. avr evr en ankotharo anta yochne maadkondu badkokkee allaaa maga devru jeevana kottirodu.

"I don't think you would feel anything goin thru this" - feel andre? yaav tara feelingu? embarassment kinds aa atva lack of empathy kindsaa??

Sandesh said...

@i7 - Hehe!

Yaavano helda antha daadi bolsidyalla, idu nyaayana?? Neen maadiddu sari na?

Avr ivr helod kelkond badkonu udhdhaara aagalla! Swantha Buddhi upayogisu maga.

Feeling is just feeling. There is nothin worth feeling antha artha!

Shrinidhi Hande said...

Hope some of them will read this post and try to understand you better...

Shrinidhi Hande said...

Enable annonymous comments-may be some of them might consider revealing the details.

ankurg said...

ha ha ha!! hey waht about the way u look at them!! Give some details of the story of their side!!:)

Sandesh said...

@ Shrinidhi - Hope so, but i dont think they know abt my blog! (They here mean only those females i've mentioned in this post). Will allow anonymous comments from next post. Thanks for bringing it to my notice. =)

@ankurg - Yeah! I'll touch upon that very soon!

Shrinidhi Hande said...

Display your blog url near ur Cubicle....

They'll certainly visit once.

Nidhi

i 7 said...

havdu syaa cubicle alli display maadu, mar dine ne chappli seve aaguttey :P

KbHbEjTi said...

paaapa.. Hudigur!!

Dewdrop said...

Thanks quite a news. I hope i didnt fall into tht category during my tenure there. [:)]

Sandesh said...

@kbhbejti - Maga, idu nijvaaglu hbbodibmj maga!

@dewdrops - Not with you but we had such females even in your tenure. Some in Ranger CDT in the initial days. thanks for droppin by! Keep commenting. =)

mohan said...

Ha ha....Ranger CDT alli nange yaaru hudgiru antha anisle illa maga....so i hope it doesn't matter how they looked at you

Sandesh Karanth said...

@Mohan - hehehe! adu ond thara nijane... =)